Practical resolution.
WHY
Legal action is slow and expensive, and frequently costs more than it recovers.
WHAT TO TRY FIRST
A direct conversation A clear written statement of the position A proposal to resolve it
WHAT MAKES RESOLUTION EASIER
Being specific about what you want Being willing to compromise Keeping it unemotional Acting promptly
WHAT MAKES IT HARDER
Accumulated grievances Public escalation Positions taken and defended
MEDIATION
A neutral third party helping both sides reach agreement.
Frequently cheaper and faster than litigation.
WHAT TO CONSIDER
What the relationship is worth against the amount in dispute
Sometimes the relationship is worth more.
WHAT TO PUT IN WRITING
Any settlement reached, signed by both parties.
Including that it settles the matter fully.
WHAT TO TAKE ADVICE ON
Any settlement of substance, before signing.
WHAT TO LEARN AFTERWARDS
What in your agreement or process allowed the dispute.
